If Your Name Ain't on the Deed, What Are We Even Doing?

Let's talk about what recently shook the timeline: Cory Wharton (yes, from Teen Mom) is building a home and allegedly left his long time partner and mother of his children, Taylor Selfridge, off the deed. Oh, and now they've split.

Insert dramatic sip of tea.

Before I start, let me say this: I don't know the ins and outs of their relationship, but I do know this—too many women keep showing up like wives with no real protection. By protection, I mean legal, financial, and emotional protection.

Ladies, we have to stop thinking "love" equals "security." Here is the hard truth: Most men will choose self-presevation first. Not all, but many. They’ll make sure they’re good—deed signed, money locked, future mapped. Meanwhile, we're over here trying to be ride-or-die when we're not even on the title.

Let me be clear: No marriage. No deed. No legal claim. Period.

Taylor and Cory have been together for years, have children together, and still—still—she could be left with nothing tied to that property. If she contributed finacially, sure, she might have a case...but wouldn't it have been better to have her name on the deed in the first place? Or married?

So here is the friendly PSA, sis:

Before you start building a man's legacy, ask yourself:

• Is this also building mine?

• Are my needs being considered, protected, and respected?

• Would he still do right by me, without me having to coach him through it?

If the answer is no, pack your heart and go.

It’s not about being bitter—it’s about being wise. It’s about choosing clarity over fantasy, and security over potential.

Real love doesn't leave your name off the deed.

Stay polished, protected, and powerful.

— Bri 💋